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Some of them are pretty hard to change. And no matter how bright were the dreams and hopes, no one can guarantee that the union of two hearts will last forever. The ancient custom was built on offering spouses to each other that day, cotton handkerchiefs tied with a knot, which symbolizes an oath to keep the love for life. After an exchange of handkerchiefs, a husband and wife should join hands together and say these words: "How knots tied by us are strong, and our words are strong. As wind-rake in the cornfield awake, so happiness and joy forever with us to arrive.
" Perform this ritual was believed to guarantee a happy and long life for the couple. If You are invited to the wedding calico, give handmade card then you can choose any cotton product as a gift (or any household items), it could be a towel, tablecloth, napkins, kit bedding, curtains (curtains, blinds, curtains), apron, etc. A gift can make the original order and a towel with the inscription of names newlyweds or their photographs. Another ritual was considered a gift mother-in-law offering cotton dress, which served as a wish to ease relations and family life, as the material of this podarka.Bumazhnaya wedding (2 years) for the second year in the life of the spouses is more difficult than First, it was during this time the relationship ends on romanticism and established the general regime of family life, shared border responsibility for each spouse. At this time, spouses are no longer permanently control their actions, and begins to show the character of each individual, but on the basis of this relationship appears to not only love but also respect for the wishes and actions of her husband.
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